Be mindful of these 4 things that you can use right now:
COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS
When you see what can transpire in an instant, some things as simple as having a roof over your head, food to eat and loved ones nearby, take on a new poignancy. Write down what you are grateful for, and do it daily. What you focus on grows…especially your appreciation for the little things in life.
Walk in their shoes and send your good wishes. What if a wave just washed away your life, as you knew it? We all share the same fears; we all hope for a better day. As Chief Seattle said, “We are all connected – what affects one affects us all in this web of life called Earth.” Experience empathy and send good wishes. They matter more than you know.
SAY “I LOVE YOU,” OFTEN
In day-to-day life, we often don’t take the time to value the people that matter most until something changes. What if you expressed love and gratitude and said, “I love you,” whenever possible? If you thought, “This day could be my last,” who would you want to hug?
FORGIVE — LIFE IS TOO SHORT FOR GRUDGES
If a partner or friend dies unexpectedly, it would be even more excruciating if there were still matters unresolved. Life can change in a blink , so clean the slate. If you can’t heal the grudge face to face, write a letter and don’t mail it. The act of forgiving does not say the situation miraculously is fine. It simply releases the energy that imprisons you.
COMPASSION IN ACTION
Doing something physical can help relieve the sadness. Even sending a very small amount of donation means you have engaged, that you are part of the solution. Small acts of kindness can have big rewards for you. Whether it’s the Red Cross or Save the Children, the act of doing something can provide more than aid to the victims — it can provide a measure of disaster relief to you.
What are your thoughts and suggestions?